Baby love

Happy Valentines Day! Or as I like to call it happy hallmark day!

I personally don’t see the point of Valentine’s Day for one big reason. What’s the point in proclaiming your love for someone when you already should be doing that?

Ok, here is the slushy part of my life. Whenever I am messaging or on the phone to my husband we always say “love you”, or occasionally, “I really love you and I really like you ” at the end of our conversations. I know slushy right? But I don’t care. As you never know what could happen. We show and tell each other this a lot every single day and not just twice a year!

I personally don’t see the point in spending a lot of money for just two days of the year. What’s wrong with just the occasional surprise present?

Whilst raising my son I want to show and explain to him about the importance of love. Not just love for his other half but the importance of love in a family. My son already shows how much he loves my husband and I, by running into our arms when we come home from work, with a huge smile on his face.

He also shows his love to his grandad’s and grandma’s by smiling at them and occasionally running into their arms.

I want him to know the importance of showing his love and also the importance of love in a family.

He is still very young to know this but by showing how we treat each other, with care, will have an impact on him.

Babies can pick up on a lot of emotions and can detect if something is wrong. For example; today I have been struck with the cold. What did my 14 month old son do? He decided to run to me with a book and got on my lap so I can read to him. He also played with my hair (which I find relaxing) and had a nap with me on the sofa. It was the perfect morning. What made it perfect was the bond we shared and how he cared for me in his own unique way. For me that is LOVE!

If I didn’t tell him and sign him that “I love you” everyday would he look after me? I honestly don’t know. Will he continue to show me how much he cares in the future I don’t know. However, what I do know is I will love him unconditionally, till the end of the line. I tell him that everyday!

So, hopefully after reading the post tell your family how much you love them. Not just today but everyday. Make each day count. Share the love 💓